Barriers to love

First dates, like holidays, require some planning even if you intend to date casually: this can mean the difference between finding a potential partner and adventure, or a disastrous evening on an already too-short trip. Research into different customs and a language primer or two can go a long way, but an awareness of safety is essential.

Most dating apps offer translation features to overcome language difficulties and safety tips for travelling. “Meeting new people is exciting, but travellers should always be cautious when interacting with someone they don’t know,” says Tinder’s Dev. She urges travellers to use their best judgment: always meet in public, be careful sharing personal information and don’t leave personal items unattended.

Despite the challenges, many report overwhelmingly positive experiences dating abroad – especially in a post pandemic world. “The cultural differences and even the language barriers are a wonderful part of the experience,” says Chris Gray. “If you consider that a burden, you may as well stay at home.”

The combination of travel, flexible work and technology that wanderlove offers has created endless possibilities to connect and fundamentally changed dating for wanderlove enthusiasts like Sarah Mason.

“I can’t imagine dating in just one city now,” she says. ”Why limit yourself?”

*Some names have been changed.

The wanderlove list

Munich

Just south of Munich, there are boutique hotels with access to the mountains. You’ll have a romantic experience regardless of the season: whether you’re on a summer hike or cuddling in front of a fireplace as it snows outside. – Stefan Fisse

Rome

I love Rome in the autumn. My ideal romantic experience involves an espresso and a walk through the Villa Borghese gardens, pasta and lots of wine for lunch near the Trevi Fountain and Spanish Steps, then exploring the Roman Forum at sunset before dinner on the Via Veneto, where La Dolce Vita is set. – Sarah Mason

Thailand

Southwest of Bangkok, I like to start in Hua Hin then keep going through to Pran Buri. It’s quiet but not too remote, and there are beautiful spots where jungle and coast blend. Perfect for long drives and sunset margaritas. – Chris Gray

Macao

I love to share a gelato with my loved one by the water. Macao offers many sights and romantic experiences. It was during a trip there that my husband helped me to overcome my fear of heights at the Macau Tower. – Melody Munson